How to treat your "Ex"? Be a friend, enemy or stranger?

Hi, I'm back. Well, today i would to talk about something a bit sensitive about the feelings. No no, it is not about my feeling with someone anyway. This is about the idea of about with your ex - girlfriend or boyfriend and how you treat that person after both of you end your relationship as a couple. So people, how are your feeling with your ex - girlfriend or boyfriend? Is it after you end your relationship with him or her, everything is just fine and act like a ordinary friend? Or if there is something happened, you and the person now is the enemy for each other? Or both of you ignored each other? Well, this is not about true or false questions, every questions or opinion about that is true because it your own opinion and statement. One day, I ask some of my friends at the college about this question. Many of them told me that if you end your relationship, you must still be a friend. Some of my friends, mostly girl, give the opinion that you just ignore your ex. Well, this question for some people are make them confuse how to answer this question with the right answer. For me personally, I will make a good relationhip as a friend with my ex after we conclude that we end the relationship as a couple. But in case, i will make a distance with that person if she already have another new lover. This is not make me ignore the person, I'm still make a good communication as a good friend too. For me personally, I don't like to be a stranger with the person that i already know, especially with my friends or ex. In case, some of my friends told me about their opinion of became an enemy with their ex. Well, I know, they have a reasons why they already be an enemy with their ex. About this case, I'm still respect their answer. For me, it's okay because I think they know the best answer for their feelings. If the best answer is be an enemy with your ex is a last asnwer, there are no other words to stop it. But, I suggest that even you have a bad memories about your ex, try to forgive the person and still be a good friend for each other. I know, if you want to ignore the person, well that's okay but at least you already try to be a good and nice with the people that you already know. If you try to act be good and nice, even you have a bad memories with that person, one day the person will try to be good and nice with you and maybe that person will forget about the bad things that both of you already get together. So, as a conclude, try to be nice with your ex because there is no loss if you act nice and good with that person. If you still have a problem with your ex, talk together and forgive each other. Well, a world be nicer if you don't have any person that you hate and not act like a stranger with the person that last time fill your time together with love. It doesn't matter with your answer if you want to be a friend, enemy, or a stranger. You have your own answer about this one which is the best answer for you and your ex. That's all for today, I hope this idea can help you guys if you still confuse how to treat your ex then. Stay tune and Good Bye!

Campus life, is it tough enough?

Hi, it's me again. Today I would like to give you a story about campus life. First of all, do you know about the campus life? No, it is not same like a school life absolutely. This is totally different with the school life. At this time, you will learn by your own, not by the teachers own. In campus, you are free to do, free to give your opinion or statement and also you are free to come to attend the class or not. So, is it tough enough? Well for me, after a year i'm studying on my campus, the answer is yes it is. In my opinion, campus life is totally different with the school life and also a little bit tough enough. Why I can answer yes? Because in campus, you'll do by your own and also you'll free to do without any warning from the teachers. In here, you're not call them a teacher but you called them a lecturer. The lecturer maybe let you to do anything because in here like i said before, you learn by your own. It doesn't matter that if you want to make a note from the subject or not, listen the lecturer or not, concentrate to subject or you just sit and play your gadget, it is absolutely up to you. But, maybe the consequence if you didn't make a note or listen and concentrate to the subject is you will get a little bit hard to do the mid - term test or the final test. So, how about the friends then? In here, you will be meet a different kind of a people. In campus, there are so many people with the different of characteristics. Good friend, bad friend, fake friend, real friend, two face, liar, drama, love, relationhips, honest one, anything was in here. So, how i can make a good relationships between myself and the friends that i didn't know their characteristics? Well, the answer is first you must positive thinking with your friends, stay trust them, and learn their characteristics. Over the time, later on you will know who is the best friends that can make you be a good friend or a bad friend. So, like i said before, campus life is a little bit tough enough because in here, you do the things by your own, high of individualism person, and you are free to give your statement or opinion. My suggestions is if you want to make this campus life a 'lil bit easier is just stick with the line, follow the rule of the campus and your own rules and standard, and also never give up with the conditions. I hope this article can giving you a picture about the campus life. Make this campus life experience become your experience to the jobs life because jobs life is more harder than a campus life. Remember, the best lesson for success is the experience that you've already got and no pain no gain That's all for today, See you soon!